The paths of the De
Santis and Cocco families converge in the inspiration to create a meeting point between
the West and India, between tradition and progress.
The De Santis family is itself a meeting point.
After finishing his degree in Hindi and Urdu at the Oriental Institute in Naples, Stefano
De Santis left for India, where he obtained his Ph.D. in anthropological philosophy at the
Banaras Hindu University. He met Vrinda Dar, who was finishing her Masters in Education.
They married and had two children Fausto and Gauri, whom they are raising in both the
Roman Catholic and Hindu traditions.
They came
to Rome in 1993 to give Fausto and Gauri an Italian primary education. They sought out
people with whom they could share their religious but open approach to life.
Pietro Cocco and the American Kitty Wolf are journalists in Rome who share a passion for
India. While raising Irene and Giovanni over the past ten years, Kitty completed her
Masters in inter-religious dialogue while awaiting the chance to return to India.
So, when the De Santis blew into town, the Coccos felt the impact of their shakti, and the
De Santis took refuge in the Cocco family's spirit. They began to explore the
possibilities of their mutual attraction. Together they reflected over religious texts and
discovered the wealth of wisdom that is released from these texts when approached from the
perspective of a different religion.
In light of
this experience, the desire arose to have a meeting place where they could invite others
to join them in this type of exchange. The De Santis and Coccos stumbled across Ram
Bhavan, a lovely house along the shores of the Ganges in Banaras.
This web
site is a way of inviting you and other cultural travellers to join their search in
Banaras. The two families have arranged Ram Bhavan as a guest house and research base, and
have established the Kautilya Society as the organizing body for the adventure.